Compiled and written by David R. Schleper, 2022
The usually quiet town of Shakopee was aroused from its lethargy on a Monday evening in January 1886 by the clatter of voices, ringing of sleigh bells, and neighing of horses, according to an article in the Shakopee Courier, Jan. 20, 1886.
Some thought it was a rumbling earthquake, less timid called it a cyclone; but come to find out it was only a party of Shakopee’s women who supported women’s rights! As one of the women remarked that it was to show the boys that “We can have a sleigh ride of our own without their assistance if we take a notion!” said the article.
One of the women’s rights members was Daisy Maria Cogswell. Daisy was born in Eden Prairie on Feb. 21, 1871. Her mother was Euphonia Isora Phy Apgar Cogswell (1849-1922) and her grandparents were Capt. Samuel R. Apgar (1801) and Melinda Perry Apgar (1806-1970), who arrived in Shakopee when this area was called Holmes Landing in 1851. Daisy’s father was Adoniram Addison Judson Cogswell (1844-1920), son of Wilson Cogswell (1810-1871) and Abby Kenyon Cogswell (1819-1893). They arrived in Shakopee by 1860. Euphonia and Adoniram ended up moving to Devil’s Lake, North Dakota, where they both were buried at the Grand Army of the Republic Cemetery in Devil’s Lake.
As for Daisy and her women friends? They had fun. They were independent. And they were a bit of risk takers.
According to the women, the young ladies gathered and charted an excursion team for the purpose of taking a sleigh ride to Chaska in 1886. Those who were there included Minnie Busse, Rosie and Dena Kohler, Mary and Anna Ries, Nellie Jackman, Katie Theis, Mary Poetz, Flora Thorn, Mary Reis, and Lizzie Marx, along with Daisy Cogswell.
The ladies went to enjoy themselves and had no intention of offending anyone. But some of the young male scamps, not gentlemen, for the ladies did not consider them such, tried to cast slurs upon the young ladies, according to an article in the Shakopee Courier, on Jan. 27, 1886.
The ladies responded, advising the young men to find better employment, and know that the ladies will defend their honor.
And as for the boys? They will be left behind!
A few years later, Daisy, still a bit of a rebel, finally married Robert Emmett Orr (1858-1937) in 1889, though she still supported women’s rights.
Daisy and Robert had three children: John Judson (1890-1966), Emmett Adelbert (1896-1956) and Daisy L. (1904-1982).
Eventually, the family moved to Covington, Kentucky. Robert became the United Deputy Marshal in Kentucky, according to the Lexington Herald on Aug. 14, 1904.
Daisy died Aug. 9, 1904, of septic fever. Robert died in 1937. Both were buried at the Ghent Consolidated Cemetery, in Ghent, Kentucky.
Why was the cemetery consolidated? It turns out that starting in 1857, there were two cemeteries, both close together. One was for white people, and the other was for African Americans. Eventually, they combined the two cemeteries, the Ghent Scott Cemetery (for white people) and the Colored Oddfellows Cemetery, adjacent and south of the Ghent Cemetery (for African Americans). And in that combined cemetery, Daisy Maria Cogswell Orr and Robert Emmett Orr were buried.